I consulted a
dermatologist year 2004 for a mole removal. Yes, you read it right! I asked a
derma to remove my mole. Actually it’s my grandma’s idea (dad’s side), and she
even paid for it. Why? It is not that it’s really in a cancerous stage but
because the mole I have is under my eyes ( on the left side of my nose to be
exact)right where the tears fall and granny don’t want me to get widowed over
and over again like what superstitions says. I actually planned to removed both
moles since I’m already there anyway ( I
have two big moles in my face) but the Derma only removed one and let the
mole on my right cheek stays. It is not that she can’t remove both
but she just leaves that one because a superstition says a person with a mole
on his/her face will be successful in business.
Funny it may seem
but we Filipinos really grew up and believes in superstitious beliefs, it
doesn’t matter if you are from the Metro or Provinces.
Countless of them I must say, they have a lot
to say weather it’s about pregnancy and childbirth, infants and
children, love and marriage, money and wealth, food and dining ,house and home,
illness and death, colors and numbers, animals, tell tail signs, bad luck and
good luck, etc.
Have you ever
realized how much our life is governed by the power of these unwritten laws?
I remember
when I was a kid when my milk tooth fell out, I threw it up unto our kitchen’s roof
because they said the rats will find it and when my new tooth grows in, it will
be as strong and as powerful as a rat’s tooth. Duh?!! Tell me why my teeth now
have jackets LOL.
Few months
ago I saw myself thinking about “SUKOB” when Alan told me about her half
sister’s planned wedding on October that he just learned. Our wedding will going
to be in the same year and again superstitions
says it’s bad luck for two siblings to marry in the same year. How bad is that?
Oh well, because Alan is Mexican and they don’t have such beliefs plus we are
married onboard a ship already (civilly), we just ignored it and just focused
in our wedding preps.
Superstitions
sometimes may leave us in total bewilderment but if it will only lead us to a
better appreciation of Filipino mystique then re-reading these folk beliefs
would have served a purpose.
Since I am
getting married soon and I know my fellow brides-to-be are also curious about what
superstitions says in love and marriage, I selected 20 superstitious
beliefs that is popular, appealing and unique
basing on personal choice.
Ready?!
1.
Sweethearts
should not exchange pointed or sharp objects as gifts, for this will lead to a
broken engagement.-que??
2.
The
bride and groom-to-be must avoid travelling before their wedding day to avoid
accident. -we have destination wedding,how about that?
3.
The
bride-to-be shouldn’t try on her wedding dress before the day of the wedding,
or the wedding will not take place.
complicated I must say! |
4.
The
groom must arrive in the church before the bride to prevent bad luck.-you better Boo. :P
5.
Dropping
the wedding ring, or the couple’s veil, or arrhae during the wedding ceremony,
spells unhappiness for the couple.-Secondary sponsors beware!
6.
The
groom who sits down ahead of his bride during the wedding ceremony will be a
henpecked husband.-Awwww under the saya ? will I let Alan sit first?....hmmmm lemme think about it hihi
7.
If
it showers during the wedding, it means prosperity and happiness for the
couple.-no! por favor! we are having the party under the sky >.<
8.
During
the wedding ceremony a bride must step on her husband’s foot so that both of
them will agree on things that they will undertake, and so that her husband
will not be cruel to her.-AHA!
9.
Whoever
the couple stands first after the ceremony, will die ahead of the other.-Wanna stand first.
10. It is a bad omen for the newlyweds
when their parents cry at their wedding.-Mother!remember this....^_^
11. A bride who cries during the wedding
ceremony brings bad luck.- I will try not to..
12. Throwing rice at the newlyweds will
bring them prosperity all their life.-for sure :D isang sako kaya?haha
13. Breaking something during the wedding
reception brings good luck to the newlyweds.-how about 10 trays of egg? LOL
14. Upon entering their new home, both
bride and groom should go up the stairs side-by-side so that neither of them
will be superior to the other.-i hope i'm slim then! (goodluck)
15. It is bad luck for two siblings to
marry within the same year aka Sukob. A remedy for this is to have
the sibling who marries later in the year pass the backstairs of the church on
the day of the wedding.-Ooops have remedy naman pala ;D
16. Removing plates from the table while
an unmarried woman is still eating will keep her single all her life.-yes! because overweight....too much eating!
18. A married woman who wears a pearl ring
will cause her husband to commit adultery.-good thing I don't have one.
19. A person who habitually sits in the
head of the table during meals will never marry.-our dining table is round haha.
20. If you want to see before hand what
your lifetime partner will look like, wake up at midnight and look at yourself
in the mirror while holding a lighted candle. At first, the image in the mirror
will appear to be skeleton; after five minutes you will see the full view of
the person you will marry.-freaky!!Nunca!
There
you go! Weather these superstitions charm or amuse or seem unbelievable today, which
among us has the audacity to trifle with luck and taunt fate itself?
Chuckle
if you must… but hey! don’t say I didn’t warn you if you fail to heed their advice!
: P
PS. Alan’s half sister’s wedding was
postponed recently for the reason I don’t bother to ask. But the good thing is
that I will not think nor worry about Sukob anymore, weather its true or not!
Note: Pinoystitions is my own term for
Pinoys superstitions, I don’t know if there's such word. After each superstitions I have my thoughts written -again, just my thoughts.
Source: Don’t
take a bath on a Friday by Neni Sta.
Romana-Cruz
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